It amazes me how people can change. Someone you thought you knew so well can turn into the most conniving, malicious, selfish, two-faced, vindictive asshole you ever met. And its crazy how you had no idea they had it in them. All of a sudden they become a stranger. The person who promised that no matter what, even in the face of a divorce, they would make sure you would survive. I do know, however, that wedding vows need to have a crucial part added. It should have an extra verse as such, (repeat after me)
And, during the marriage, I may change. I may change a lot. There's a significant chance I will turn into the biggest asshole you know and you will be last on my list of priorities but you must still be the perfect wife that I expect you to be. And if the day comes that you think you may want to leave me and try and search for your own happiness, then just be forewarned that my claws will come out and I will do everything in my power to see you hit rock bottom and suffer the consequence. You WILL see how miserable life can be without me in it, if it kills me.
(you may now kiss the man who will eventually and slowly rip your heart apart)
Anyway..I said it once and I'll say it again: "I'd rather be alone and 'suffer my consequences' (as it was so delicately said to me) than be with him and miserable the rest of my life."